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Optimize Your Health with Biotherapeutic Drainage

May 28, 2025 by Dr. Gil Winkelman Leave a Comment

In this simulcast of AskDrGil, I discuss how we can optimize health through biotherapeutic drainage therapy. This gives us insight into how we can heal. The key is not finding an endpoint. Rather, we must understand the process of how we keep returning to optimal health. While this talk doesn’t go into the specifics of biotherapeutic drainage, it does discuss how our bodies recover from intense insults such as heavy metals, mold, chemical toxins, and others. Balancing the body allows for symptom relief, not giving a pill for it. 

The main thing to understand about getting healthy. It doesn’t happen overnight, particularly if you have a chronic illness. To optimize your health, you need to change the behaviors, thoughts, and habits that got you to the unhealthy state. How do we do that? Through understanding habits, epigenetics, childhood development, and opening the pathways of elimination also called emunctories.

This episode is a simulcast which is on YouTube. You can watch it here.

 

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Uncovering the Power of Biotherapeutic Drainage Therapy

May 12, 2025 by Dr. Gil Winkelman Leave a Comment

Biotherapeutic drainage therapy is something near to me. I first learned about it as a patient many years ago. I can’t remember why I went to see Dr. Thom originally. Maybe several things. Fatigue, sleep issues, digestive problems, migraines. I can’t remember why now. I just remember him explaining how drainage works and why taking UNDA numbers would help me. Though I experienced benefits along the way, it took several years before I felt the full effects. I remember getting out of bed one morning and realizing I got up with no pain for the first time in years.

And recently, I visited the eye doctor who asked me, “what are you doing?” I said, “what do you mean?” He marvelled how much my eyes IMPROVED; something that shouldn’t be happening at my age, he thought.

When I have patients that the Walsh Protocol doesn’t help, I like to use biotherapeutic drainage therapy. It is a holistic approach designed to enhance your body’s natural detoxification processes and promote overall wellness. It provides a myriad benefits and applications. We’ll compare this therapy with other popular wellness options and I’ll try my best to explain the process.

What is Biotherapeutic Drainage?

Definition and Overview

Biotherapeutic drainage therapy is a holistic approach designed to enhance the body’s natural detoxification processes. This therapy focuses on the removal of accumulated toxins from the body, which can arise from various sources, including air and water pollution, poor dietary choices, and chronic stress. Historically, the concept of drainage can be traced back to ancient practices in Chinese medicine, Ayurveda, and homeopathy, where the emphasis was placed on restoring the body’s balance and promoting optimal health, not eliminating symptoms.

Think of it this way. If your body was a cistern, (think of a bucket with a valve at the bottom), the valve at the bottom needs to be open to release toxins and waste. If the valve gets stuck, the top of the cistern will overflow. That’s what happens to people when they aren’t eliminating properly. Toxins build in the body and erupt through other mechanisms causing symptoms. Biotherapeutic drainage therapy aims to support and enhance these natural processes, ultimately facilitating a healthier body and mind.

Mechanisms of Action

Biotherapeutic drainage therapy stimulates the body’s natural detoxification processes through various techniques that support the lymphatic and circulatory systems. The UNDA numbered compounds work to restore the elimination pathways in the body. For example, we might give a set of numbers to help the liver clear toxins more efficiently. Working on the lymphatic system simultaneously is crucial to improvement. Things like dry skin brushing, castor oil packs, and movement help move lymph. By enhancing lymphatic flow and improving circulation, biotherapeutic drainage therapy helps to mobilize and eliminate stored toxins effectively.

Benefits of Biotherapeutic Drainage Therapy

Physical Health Benefits

One of the primary benefits of biotherapeutic drainage therapy is enhanced detoxification and elimination of toxins from the body. This process can lead to improved immune function and overall vitality, as the body is better equipped to fight off infections and diseases. Additionally, individuals may experience relief from chronic pain and inflammation, making it a valuable option for those suffering from acute and chronic conditions. In my own life, that’s what happened. The creakiness I experienced in the mornings was gone.

Mental and Emotional Wellness

Beyond physical health, biotherapeutic drainage therapy also offers significant mental and emotional wellness benefits. The detoxification process can lead to a reduction in stress and anxiety, as the body releases built-up tension and toxins. Many of my patients improve psychologically as a result of my treatments. When Walsh doesn’t work fully, I use a variety of these remedies to help improve cognitive and emotional health.

Applications of Biotherapeutic Drainage

Targeted Conditions and Uses

Biotherapeutic drainage therapy treats a variety of conditions, including allergies, digestive issues, neurological problems, and skin problems. I use it to treat autoimmune issues and other chronic illnesses. I should warn you that it doesn’t make problems leave overnight. With time, symptoms improve. And if you’ve read my blog in the past, you know that habits are such an important part of health. The processes involved in biotherapeutic drainage help build good health habits.

Integrating with Other Wellness Practices

Biotherapeutic drainage therapy can be seamlessly integrated with other holistic treatments, such as nutrition and lifestyle changes. Many of my patients will also continue a modified Walsh Protocol protocol, for example. Or they may use an elimination diet to enhance their detoxification efforts. The main thing is creating a routine that promotes overall health and wellbeing.

Comparison with Other Wellness Treatments

Biotherapeutic Drainage Therapy vs. Traditional Detox Methods

If you compare biotherapeutic drainage to traditional detox methods, you’ll find key differences in approach and philosophy. Traditional detox methods often focus on short-term cleanses or restrictive diets. Or in the case of chelation, for example, it works to quickly remove toxins from the body. The problem with this approach is what if the body isn’t ready to release the toxins? In many cases, the situation can be exacerbated.

Biotherapeutic drainage encourages a more sustainable, gentler, long-term approach to health. It becomes a lifestyle for many people even without the remedies. This helps continue detoxification after the “detox.” I mean most people shower often to get dirt and sweat off of them. Why wouldn’t you do the same with helping the body remove the interior “dirt.”

Another great advantage of biotherapeutic drainage is other treatments can continue simultaneously. I have many patients who do my treatments and either Western Medicine treatments (including chemotherapy) and/or acupuncture, neurofeedback, or other CAM type treatments. In fact, many MDs marvel about how well my patients are doing on their treatments, not understanding how biotherapeutic drainage helps reduce the side effects of those medications. Often, with detoxes, the physician does not want the patient doing other treatments as they can conflict with one another.

Conclusion

Final Thoughts on Biotherapeutic Drainage

In summary, biotherapeutic drainage  presents a multitude of benefits and applications for individuals seeking to enhance their health and well-being. From improved physical health to mental and emotional wellness, this therapy offers a holistic approach to detoxification. As you consider your individual health needs and goals, it may be worthwhile to explore biotherapeutic drainage further. If you want to find out more about biotherapeutic drainage, click on the schedule now button and send me an email. I would be delighted to guide you through the journey towards optimal wellness.

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How to Transform The Thoughts and Habits Cycle

May 4, 2025 by Dr. Gil Winkelman Leave a Comment

Every day, an invisible force: the dynamic connection between our thoughts and habits quietly steered our lives. While many people focus on external circumstances when trying to make life changes, the true starting point lies within the mind. Our thoughts generate feelings, which drive our behaviors. Repeated behaviors solidify into habits, and over time, these habits build the lives we experience — for better or worse.

Understanding this chain reaction gives you the key to personal transformation. When you learn to recognize and reprogram your thoughts, you can create healthier feelings, develop empowering behaviors, and ultimately form habits that support your goals and dreams.

The Cycle: Thoughts → Feelings → Behaviors → Habits

The heart of human experience is the relationship between thoughts and feelings. A single thought — often so fleeting we barely notice it — can trigger a cascade of emotional responses. For example, the thought “I’m not good enough” can stir feelings of sadness, shame, or anxiety. Those feelings may influence behaviors like procrastination, withdrawal, or overcompensation.

Behaviors repeated over time become habits. If you consistently procrastinate because of feelings of inadequacy, procrastination can become a habitual response — not because it’s who you are, but because it’s the path your thoughts and feelings paved for you.

Understanding the chain reaction from thoughts to habits is so powerful. It empowers you to change the trajectory of your life at its true origin point: your inner world.

Recognizing Feelings to Uncover Thoughts

Most of us live on autopilot, reacting to life without questioning why we feel or act the way we do. However, feelings are important signposts. When you slow down and pay attention to your emotional state, you can trace the feeling back to the thought that created it.

Let’s say you suddenly feel anxious before a meeting. If you pause and explore that anxiety, you might uncover a thought like “I’m going to mess up and embarrass myself.” Recognizing the feeling gives you a doorway into the unconscious thought patterns driving your emotional and behavioral responses.

Here’s a simple process you can use:

  1. Notice the feeling. Label it: fear, anger, sadness, joy, etc.
  2. Pause and get curious. Ask yourself: What thought might have triggered this feeling?
  3. Write it down. Seeing the thought on paper often helps you recognize its influence and exaggeration.
  4. Challenge or reframe the thought. Is it true? Is there another way to see the situation?
  5. Let Go. Ask yourself if you can release the thought. If you can, great. If not, feel into and allow the resistance to the thought. Often, allowing the resistance is all that is needed to release it.

By using feelings as a guide, you become better at recognizing the thoughts that shape your world. And remember that neurons that wire together, fire together. But the opposite is true too. Neurons that stop firing, unwire. As you let things go, you unwire those neural pathways.

How to Reprogram Your Thoughts

Once you’ve identified the thoughts that are creating unwanted feelings and behaviors, the next step is reprogramming them. Here are several proven methods:

1. Cognitive-Behavioral Techniques (CBT)

CBT is based on the idea that thoughts, not external events, cause our feelings and behaviors. Using CBT techniques, you can learn to challenge irrational thoughts and replace them with healthier ones.

For example:

  • Automatic Thought: “I’m terrible at public speaking.”
  • Challenge: “Is that 100% true? What evidence do I have to support or refute this?”
  • Replacement Thought: “I’ve spoken in public before and did fine. I can prepare and do my best.”

Over time, practicing these shifts rewires your mind and changes your emotional responses.

2. Visualization and Affirmations

Visualization involves imagining yourself thinking, feeling, and behaving positively. Affirmations are positive statements that help counteract negative thought patterns.

For example:

  • Visualize yourself confidently speaking in front of a crowd.
  • Repeat affirmations like “I am calm, prepared, and capable.”

Visualization and affirmations help create new neural pathways that support healthier thoughts and habits.

3. Mindfulness Meditation

Mindfulness trains you to observe your thoughts without getting hooked by them. By regularly practicing mindfulness, you develop the ability to notice negative thoughts early — before they spiral into powerful feelings or impulsive behaviors.

A simple mindfulness practice:

  • Sit quietly and focus on your breath.
  • Notice any thoughts that arise without judgment.
  • Let the thoughts float by like clouds.

This detachment helps you reclaim your power to choose which thoughts you engage with. If you tend to get anxious, this may not be the best approach as it can increase anxiety. But many of my patients in this situation, find that doing a guided process helps alleviate that problem.

4. Somatic Work

Since thoughts also live in the body (more on this shortly), somatic techniques like body scanning, breathwork, or movement practices (yoga, dance, etc.) can help you process and shift ingrained thought-feeling patterns.

Somatic work can release old emotional memories that were locked into your muscles and nervous system, allowing space for new patterns to emerge. I have patients report feeling a tightness, twitching, or other physical experience when they are doing somatic work and a thought arises.

  1. Neurofeedback

Neurofeedback is extremely helpful in rewiring the brain. LENS neurofeedback in particularly, works quickly. My patients often notice changes in how their brains function differently as a result. This amplifies when the person focuses on changing.

Thoughts Live in the Body Too

It’s tempting to think of thoughts as purely mental events, but research in neuroscience and somatic psychology reveals a deeper truth: thoughts are embodied. They create real physical responses in your body. Think of your body like the hard drive of a computer. We store thoughts throughout the body, not just in the brain. It is why my patients report having deep memories arise after doing somatic work.

When you think a stressful thought, your body doesn’t just “think” it — it feels it. Stress hormones, like cortisol, are released by your body. Your heart rate may quicken. Your muscles may tense up. Over time, chronic negative thinking can contribute to physical illness, fatigue, and even autoimmune conditions.

Many chronic health issues are linked to the accumulation of unconscious, unresolved emotional patterns. The body remembers what the mind tries to forget. This is why people who carry deep-seated guilt, fear, or grief often experience physical symptoms like migraines, digestive issues, or chronic pain. Just a note. I say this not to blame the person, nor do I want to say it’s in their heads. The emotions are real. The physical experience is real. And there is no blame. It is an understanding that the body responds to our thoughts. And these thoughts may have been formed when we were very young.

Healing the body often begins by healing the mind. When you change your habitual thoughts, you change your physiology — from your brain chemistry to your immune function.

Building Better Habits Through Thought Mastery

Once you understand how thoughts create feelings and feelings drive behaviors, you can intentionally plant the seeds of better habits. Here’s how to apply this practically:

  1. Start small. Choose one habit you want to build (e.g., exercising daily).
  2. Identify the underlying thoughts. Notice any resistance thoughts (“I’m too tired”, “It won’t make a difference”).
  3. Reframe the thoughts. Replace them with empowering ones (“I always feel better after exercising,” “Small steps lead to big changes”).
  4. Create emotional fuel. Visualize and feel the pride, energy, or joy that comes from completing the behavior. Visualizing yourself going through your workout can help you break the non-habit.
  5. Reinforce consistently. Repeat the behavior daily, linking it to positive thoughts and feelings.

Over time, the new behavior becomes a habit — an automatic expression of your conscious thought programming.

Why “Thoughts and Habits” Are the Cornerstone of Personal Growth

Mastering your thoughts and habits isn’t just about personal success; it’s about aligning with your true nature. At your core, you are not your fears, insecurities, or limiting beliefs. We often learned these early in life and reinforced them through habit. But we are more than these things. Otherwise, how could we notice them?

By reclaiming the power to direct your thoughts, you create a positive feedback loop:

  • Healthier thoughts → Better feelings → Empowered actions → Life-affirming habits → Fulfilled living.

No external circumstance has more power over your life than the thoughts you consistently choose to believe. And when you master your habits, you master the outcomes of your life.

Final Thoughts

The journey of transformation always begins within. By recognizing the feelings that arise, uncovering the thoughts that fuel them, and reprogramming your inner dialogue, you can change the behaviors and habits that define your existence.

Your thoughts are not just fleeting mental events. They are the architects of your emotions, the sculptors of your behaviors, and the builders of your life’s habits. And because thoughts live not just in your mind but also in your body, taking care of your mental landscape is essential for true, holistic wellness.

Remember: the quality of your thoughts determines the quality of your life. Choose them wisely, nurture them patiently, and watch as your habits — and your life — transform in extraordinary ways.

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Living You Best Life- How to Find Motivation for Good Habits

March 21, 2025 by Dr. Gil Winkelman Leave a Comment

Having discussed some of the factors for building good habits instead of bad ones, I want to discuss how to find the right motivation to have good habits. If you can find an internal motivation for yourself related to your habit, that is best. I also discuss the problems with putting off living your life until… what ever the until is.

 

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How to Build Good Habits and Break Bad Ones-Part 2

March 21, 2025 by Dr. Gil Winkelman Leave a Comment

 

Last week I started discussing How to build good habits and break bad ones. It is one of the most important topics to find optimal health. Today on AskDrGil, I want to explore the ways that changes in habits leads to bigger changes in our lives. Can we learn something from quantum mechanics to know about how to build good habits and break bad ones?

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How to Release the Past: Embracing What Is.

March 18, 2025 by Dr. Gil Winkelman Leave a Comment

Releasing the past is one of the most profound challenges many people face. Painful memories, regrets, or unresolved emotions can weigh us down, preventing us from fully embracing the present and shaping the future we desire. While it may seem like an impossible task, psychological principles provide effective ways to release the past and step into a more peaceful state of being. How to completely let go of the past is an important question in helping overall health.

Two key psychological concepts—the psychology of mind and allowing emotional experience instead of resisting—offer a powerful framework for letting go. By understanding how the mind works and learning to allow emotions rather than fight them, we can free ourselves from past burdens and move toward a more fulfilling life.

Understanding the Psychology of Mind and Letting Go

The Psychology of Mind (also known as 3 P’s psychology) is based on the understanding that our thoughts create our experience of reality. It is not events themselves that cause suffering, but the meaning and emotional weight we attach to them. This concept is at the heart of many psychological and spiritual traditions, emphasizing that we have the power to shift our perspective and our emotional experience.

People often struggle with the past because they believe that:

  • The past defines them. They see past mistakes or traumas as permanent labels rather than events from which to learn.
  • They need closure. They feel they must fix or resolve something before they can move on. But we don’t always get that opportunity.
  • Holding on protects them. They believe that staying attached to the pain will prevent future suffering. Holding on rarely protects us, but almost always increases suffering.

The past exists only in our minds. While its effects may feel real, our thoughts shape our relationship to the past. By changing our mindset and emotional response, we can transform our experience of the past and free ourselves from its grip.

The Power of Allowing Emotional Experience Instead of Resisting

One of the biggest obstacles to letting go of the past is emotional resistance. Many people suppress, ignore, or fight against painful emotions because they fear overwhelm. Resisting emotions only strengthen them, much like trying to hold a beach ball underwater—it takes energy, and eventually, it will pop back up.

Why Resistance Causes Suffering

Resistance creates inner conflict. When we reject emotions, we create a battle within ourselves, leading to stress and anxiety.

  • It keeps the pain alive. Suppressing emotions does not eliminate them; they remain stored in the subconscious and resurface in unexpected ways. Sometimes those emotions remain in the body, creating symptoms.
  • It prevents healing. Healing requires processing emotions, not avoiding them.
  • The alternative to resistance is allowing. This involves acknowledging, feeling, and accepting emotions without judgment. This approach is at the core of emotional freedom techniques like mindfulness, somatic therapy, the Sedona Method, and other techniques.

Practical Steps to Release the Past Using These Concepts

1. Recognize That Thoughts Are Not Reality

There’s a wonderful bumper sticker that says, “don’t believe everything you think.” Most people in our society do not question their thoughts. The past has no power over you except through your thoughts. One practice I recommend to patients is notice in how often you replay past events in your head. Don’t try to change anything, just watch as though watching a movie. Remind yourself:

“This is just a thought. It is not happening now.”

By understanding that your mind is generating these experiences rather than the past itself, you create space to detach and let go.

2. Allow Your Emotions Fully

When painful emotions arise, instead of resisting, try the following approach:

  • Pause and acknowledge the feeling. Say to yourself, “I am feeling sadness,” or “I notice anger arising.”
  • Allow the sensation. Feel where the emotion exists in your body without trying to change it.
  • Breathe into it. Imagine breathing space into the emotion rather than tightening around it.
  • Let it move naturally. Emotions, when fully felt, often dissipate on their own.

By allowing emotions to exist without suppression, you give them the space to process and release naturally.

3. Use the Sedona Method to Let Go

Similar to the above method, the Sedona Method, developed by Lester Levenson, is a powerful technique for emotional release. I really like this technique though it’s one that doesn’t work for everyone (what does?). It involves asking yourself a series of simple but profound questions:

  • Could I allow this feeling to be here?
  • Could I let it go?
  • Would I let it go?
  • When?

This method works by shifting your relationship to emotions. Instead of clinging to them, you practice allowing and releasing, which leads to a natural sense of inner freedom. And it also works on helping us overcome our resistance to change and letting go. For many people, understanding our resistance to the experience is transformative.

4. Reframe the Past with a New Perspective

Often, people hold on to the past because they have assigned it a painful meaning. However, you have the power to rewrite the story. Ask yourself:

  • What did this experience teach me?
  • How has this strengthened me or made me wiser?
  • Can I see this event as something that helped me grow rather than something that broke me?

By shifting the meaning, you change the emotional weight the past holds over you. Remember this. Physiologically, fear and excitement are the same. Reprogramming ourselves to experience around excitement instead of fear can be very freeing.

5. Practice Present-Moment Awareness

One of the most effective ways to let go of the past is to be fully present. To some extent, these ideas are all about being present. Mindfulness helps ground you in the now, where the past has no control. Simple practices include:

  • Breathing exercises. Focus on your breath to bring awareness to the present.
  • Body scans. Notice physical sensations to connect with the now.
  • Mindful activities. Engage fully in everyday tasks like walking or eating.

The more present you become, the less grip the past has on you.

6. Cultivate Self-Compassion

Many people hold on to the past because they judge themselves harshly. Self-compassion is key to healing. Try:

  • Speaking to yourself as you would a friend.
  • Forgiving yourself for past mistakes.
  • Acknowledging that growth comes from experience.

By treating yourself with kindness, you create an environment where letting go happens naturally.

Final Thoughts: Embracing Freedom from the Past

Releasing the past is not about erasing memories or denying experiences; it is about changing your relationship to them. By understanding that the mind creates suffering through thoughts, you gain the power to shift your perspective. By allowing emotions rather than resisting them, you free yourself from their grip.

Through awareness, emotional acceptance, and mindful release, you can move beyond the past and into a life of greater peace, presence, and joy. Remember, the past does not define you—your ability to grow, heal, and embrace the present moment does.

If you are struggling with how to release the past, I can help you work through this in different ways. Reach out to my office to learn more.

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How to Build Good Habits and Break Bad Ones

March 14, 2025 by Dr. Gil Winkelman Leave a Comment

How to build good habits and break bad ones is one of the most important aspects of optimal health. I am asked about this directly and indirectly. People want to know how to feel better. Feeling better often starts with changing habits. Breaking the bad ones is important. But instilling good habits is also crucial to optimal function.

So how do you build good habits and break bad ones? In today’s episode of AskDrGil, I talk about why this is important and some of the things holding us back. Next week I’ll discuss how we can do more to improve our habits. And stay tuned as I may be offering a workshop on this topic in the near future.

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How to Deal with Negative Thoughts

February 18, 2025 by Dr. Gil Winkelman Leave a Comment

We all have negative thoughts. How we deal with them is key to overall health. In this podcast, I discuss the nature of grasping and how to watch your thoughts. We even do a small meditation.

 

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How to Be Happier using the 3 Principles

February 3, 2025 by Dr. Gil Winkelman Leave a Comment

Since we started the New Year trying to change our habits, the place to begin is with awareness. How do we approach this? Is there a scientific-based model to begin? The closest is 3 principles psychology or the 3Ps. Mind, Thought, and Consciousness are how we perceive the world. But what are they and how do we utilize them? In today’s episode, I discuss this model and how we might use it to learn about ourselves and change our habits.

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The Challenges of Changing Habits

January 6, 2025 by Dr. Gil Winkelman Leave a Comment

With the start of the New Year, it’s time that people try to start new habits. Today’s podcast is about how we get habits and what types of awareness we need to create new habits.

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**Transcript***

New Year’s is a time that people make resolutions and try and do things to feel better, look better, be better. But the question is, is what makes resolutions work or not work? Today on Ask Dr. Gil, I want to talk about the power of habits and how they are created and how to create new ones. So stay tuned. Hello and welcome to Ask Dr. Gil. I’m Dr. Gil Winkleman, your host. And today on the of things and talk about more of the mental, emotional aspect of things. And specifically, I want to talk about New Year’s resolutions slash habits, because I think this is something that we do not think about. And that, hence, is why it becomes a habit. So what is a habit? A habit is something that basically we do unconsciously. And it can be anything from how you brush your teeth to what your routine is in the morning and so forth. And generally, when we do something, it’s not necessarily a bad thing. It’s just something that we do on autopilot. And sometimes, and I think habits are created as a result of trying to create efficiencies in our lives and make things more streamlined. Unfortunately, sometimes these habits can be detrimental to us. For example, if you eat when you’re stressed, and instead of sitting with your feelings, you eat your feelings, as a simple example. But I want you to do an exercise right now as you’re listening to this. And I want you to imagine your morning routine and think about the following things. What’s the first thing you do when you get out of bed? What’s the way that you might wash your face in the morning? How do you do that? Do you put soap in your left hand or your right hand? Do you use soap? Which hand do you brush your teeth with? When you shower in the morning or evening, which hand do you use to grab the soap? And how do you lather yourself up? Now, I bring these to mind because most of you listening to this will really have to think about, which hand do I brush my teeth with? Most people brush it with their dominant hand. And tomorrow morning, I want you to do an exercise, which is to brush your teeth with your non-dominant hand, or whichever hand you normally don’t brush your teeth with. Some people will brush it with both hands and switch it based on what side they’re on. And if that’s the case, think about another exercise like grabbing the soap with a different hand, as an example. And it’s going to feel weird. And it is something that you will need to think about before you are able to make a change with it. Now, I use these as simple examples. And changing your hand may or may not have an impact on your life, although there is some research to suggest that if you brush your teeth with your non-dominant hand, you’re actually using the other side of your brain to do an activity, which is good for neuroplasticity and for brain development. And that can be a very important aspect for many people. But as far as sort of, is it great for your life? Actually, it may be worse for your teeth because you may not do as good of a job. On the other hand, you might do a better job. But in any case, the point is, how do you bring awareness to what it is that you’re doing? Now, I bring this up as an example that is simple. And it’s the simple things and the simple awarenesses that go into making habits form or forming new habits. You don’t create a new habit without awareness. You have to be conscious about it. And you have to break through something and some form of resistance. Now, the resistance for how you brush your teeth may be a very low threshold in terms of breaking it, but it still takes awareness. And it’s interesting because I’ve actually started trying this as an experiment, mostly to work on another side of my brain. Quick aside as a story, I had an anatomy professor in college named Marion Diamond, who was a neuro anatomist and dissected Einstein’s brain. Crazy story that I won’t go into on the show. But she used to write on the chalkboard with both hands. And it was as a student trying to keep up with her. It was kind of amazing.

And she was said, you need to use both your hands so that you can work both sides of your brain. And she actually played tennis with both arms. She would play a game with one arm and then play another game with the other arm. Kind of amazing and lived a long time. Great, great woman, an amazing teacher and great researcher as well. But may she rest in peace. But I started doing that with brushing my teeth, just to work on my other side of my brain. And it takes a lot of effort to remember that. I instinctively will pick up my toothbrush with my right hand and start brushing with my right side. It’s an electric toothbrush, by the way. So it’s not even like I’m doing anything. I’m just holding it and moving it around. But there’s something about doing it with my left hand that is very, very unusual for me. And there’s a discomfort related to that, which is really interesting. And it was interesting because I was reading an article about this. And they talked about, well, how do you lather your soap in the shower? And I thought, I have no idea. I just do it. And this is the piece about habits that’s really interesting, because usually we just do them. And sometimes people point them out to us, and we say, I don’t do that. But if you stop and think about it and look at it, you’re like, yeah, I guess I do that. So making a concerted effort is important. And there are other aspects to breaking habits that I think are really, really important. And the biggest one, I think, is desire. So that is a piece that I’m going to talk about on the second half of the show.

Because if you don’t have the desire to break a habit, you won’t break the habit, because there’s no force behind it. And this is sort of an interesting piece in medicine, because many people want to break a habit. They say they do. But really, when they dig deeper, there isn’t any impetus to really break the habit. So we’re going to take a quick break. And then on the second half of the show, I’m going to talk about desires related to habits and how to break them. So stay tuned. Habits and how to create new habits and break old ones. Before I continue, I just wanted to let you know, if you have any questions, feel free to send an email to info, I-N-F-O, at askdrgill.com. And I try and answer all of them. And if you have a topic you want me to cover or you have a question, or even if you have a guest that you think I might be interested in having on the show, please send me the information and I’ll be happy to take a look at it. Okay, we’re talking about habits today. And what is really interesting is that most habits are harmless. We go through life without any sort of awareness that we’re doing things in a particular way. And if you’ve ever driven home from work and been like, wow, how did I get here? How did I get home? And that’s habit, right? That’s the unconscious mind sort of an autopilot that’s doing it. And so to pull out of the habit, you need to be conscious. You need to be aware of what is it that I am doing? How am I behaving and responding in these situations? And the big piece about this is desire. Because without desire, you’re not going to break the habit, most likely. And when I say desire, I mean, a burning desire. I don’t mean just any sort of desire. I mean, someone leaves their clothes on the floor and the other partner is upset about it. And you know, the upsetness of the other partner is usually not enough to make a change in the behavior. Sometimes it is. Sometimes people are so conscientious of their partner that they’re willing to make a sacrifice in their behavior to help make the person happier. But usually, there isn’t that happening. And we see this a lot with drug and alcohol addiction, obviously, where patients with the addiction, even in the face of the other person leaving them, cannot get away from the habit. Now, addiction is a little different. Obviously, there’s a physiologic component. And I don’t want to go into that detail. But I do see this in relationships where there’s a non-addictive component and the person isn’t willing to make a change, even in the face of the partner threatening to leave the situation. So it can be very difficult. And sometimes it’s just a lack of awareness. And sometimes it’s just, I’m not changing. And that’s just how it is. That’s how I am. And too bad for you. So there is that aspect of it as well. But so let’s talk about the desire aspect of this, though, because I do think that this is an important factor. And generally, you know, when I talk, and I’m going to talk about health issues for a minute, because I have patients who, for example, are diabetic, and they have a really hard time stopping eating carbs. And I actually had a patient recently say, I just really like cookies and breads.

And, you know, she has a serious problem with her A1C. It’s very high. And she’s using, you know, various forms of of diabetic medications. And she just can’t stop herself. And we can debate and I’m going to put this aside for a minute, we can debate the physiological, addictive qualities of some of these foods, which I do think is a real thing. And I’ve talked about that in other podcasts. But particular patient, my telling her and her other doctors telling her that her blood sugars are going to harm her body wasn’t enough to get her desire level up high enough to overcome her habit. And so for her, what we’re working on is finding what it is within her that would make her want to do this. Now, this is not something that can be imposed upon you from the external, right? In other words, as a doctor, even though we have some power in terms of suggestion to patients, it’s really up to the patient to make the decision for themselves that they’re going to make this change. And that’s true with anybody. It doesn’t matter if it’s a patient, it’s your child, it’s your spouse, it’s a partner. If you’re a teacher, if it’s a student, it’s about finding what it is that’s internal to them, or you, that is going to make the change happen. And here’s sort of an exercise you can do if you’re doing this for yourself, is let’s say you have a goal this year to lose weight, and I bring that up because that’s a goal that so many people in America have a goal to do at the beginning of the year. And my question is, why do you want to lose weight? And you keep asking, well, why do I want to do that? So for example, why do you want to lose weight? Well, I want to look better. Well, why do you want to look better? Well, I want to meet somebody. Well, why do you want to meet somebody? You keep getting down to the core of what it is that makes you want to do what you want to do. And once you get to that place, that’s the motivation, not the necessarily the initial thing. And so that’s the piece I think that is very important for people to do. Now, for a small thing, say flossing your teeth more, that’s, you know, you don’t necessarily need to drill that deeply with this. But for bigger things, I think it is important to do that, because that’s where the desire is. And everything else is sort of external to something else. So for the simple things, what can you do? Well, you create the conditions where the habit can be performed, if you will. And so that becomes the place where it becomes easier. And as a simple example, if you want to floss your teeth more, say once a day, well, you start doing it before bed, before you brush your teeth. And you keep just doing that every evening. And eventually, you get to this place where you know you’ve flossed your teeth, and you don’t have to think about it. And it’s something that you want to keep doing as part of a routine. You need to be aware and focused on it at the beginning before it becomes automatic. Think about if you drive a car, if you know how to drive a car, this will sound familiar. When you first started learning to drive, you would think about everything that you were doing before you did it. And you were very careful. You looked both ways before you changed lanes. You looked in your mirrors, all that stuff. And as you became more comfortable doing what you’re doing, you stopped doing a lot of the things that actually are safe to do. But there’s an automaticness to it, and you stop thinking. And I think that in some cases, that is not a bad thing, because it can be very exhausting thinking about everything that you do in your day to get through the day. But other things, such as driving, it’s a good thing to do. So that’s kind of the piece to that. All right, that’s what I got for you today. I hope you enjoyed this. I hope you have a wonderful new year. And I would encourage you to try incorporating one new habit in your life that you might want to do, even if it’s a small one, just to try out some of the things that I talked about. And send me an email and let me know what you did. That would be great. My email is info, i-n-f-o, at askdrgill.com. And if you have any comments, questions, as I said, you can send it to that email. And if you like the podcast, if you can like it down below, or go to YouTube or Apple Podcasts and hit something on there, that would be great. Thanks so much, and I hope to see you next time. 

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